BECOMING MATURE IN CHRIST
Last Sunday, Sharon and I hosted the guest speaker, his wife, and his three little ones for lunch. We had a great time with them and the other SBC students who came as well. After lunch, however, it was clear that “nap time” had arrived, and rather than wind down, the middle child seemed to wind up. Suddenly, Noah was climbing onto our coffee table and leaping nose first into our couch. No matter what Andreas said to Noah in High German, it did not deter him from repeatedly standing up on our coffee table and jumping onto our couch. He then changed his activity and began climbing our half-wall and…I don’t know what came next. Andreas stopped him…repeatedly. Nothing seemed to help.
This was all fine for Sharon and me; it’s part of having young families in our home. But I couldn’t help imagining how we would react if we were hosting Steve and Pat at our house and Steve started climbing onto our coffee table and leaping headfirst into our couch. Or if he started climbing our half-wall with the intent to jump off it. What would we say to that? We might say that’s pretty immature. It’s fine for a three-year-old, but c’mon, grow up man.
With maturity comes certain expectations. We leave childish things behind; we act a certain way; we speak in a more discerning manner. Children say what they think; adults (hopefully) think twice before speaking. Children express themselves in wild emotional uninhibited ways; adults control themselves and consider others as they behave in public.
In speaking of nurturing the unity of the church in our previous text, Paul incites us to ask some questions. What are we supposed to do to help the church become what God intends it to be? In our present text (4:7-16), Paul answers that and says the church as a body of Christ is to grow up. Our objective is to become mature together as the body of Christ. But how do we do that? It is not through applying business strategies or growth programs to the church. How then? Paul tells us…
Christ gives us gifts of Grace (4:7-10)
“But to each one of us grace has been given as Christ apportioned it,” (7). The conjunction “but” links this sentence to the “one body…one God” discussion. Paul is telling us that “each one of us” has received grace. Not in respect to salvation – we have that already – but in terms of a gift that will help you and I to build up the body of Christ.
Then with a strange OT quote, he backs up what he’s saying. This strange quote comes from Psalm 68:18, which if you look at it reads differently than how Paul quotes it. What’s Paul saying? Psalm 68 is a victory hymn written by David to celebrate the conquest of the Jebusite city and the ascent of God (represented by the ark) up Mount Zion. So, what’s happening here? After a king won a victory, he would bring home the spoils of war and some enemy prisoners to parade before his people. An Israelite king could take this parade through Jerusalem to the temple. Part of the parade would feature the king’s own soldiers who had been freed after being held prisoner by the enemy – recaptured captives – prisoners who had been taken prisoner again by their own king and given freedom.
Paul applies this imagery to Jesus, who came to earth (descended) as a human, died on the cross and won the victory over sin and death and over Satan’s forces. Now he has ascended to heaven, to the place of victory and giving gifts to his people. This is the grace we are talking about.
In the Psalm, God receives the gifts and gives salvation. Paul changes this slightly and shows that Christ gains salvation for us and gives us gifts or grace. What he is saying with this cryptic analogy is that every single person in the church – everyone of you (me too) – has received grace to serve in the church. It all begins with the victory that Jesus won at the cross, the spoils of victory are given to us (so that we might serve one another).
If we look at the church in North America, we will see lethargy, laziness, a lack of fire for the Lord. And if we presumed that the future of the church depends on us, we may feel like the church is doomed. The church fights internally; there are church splits; there are churches attempting to draw more people by being more progressive, by not being so rigid about the truth. I can understand why we might worry about the future of the church. But it’s not on us to find the solution – the solution is Jesus Christ and the victory he won on the cross. When we take our eyes off him, that’s when we are in trouble. The future of the church depends on Jesus. Yet he involves us by his grace to help grow the church. So, it’s all on him, but he wants us to work with him.
Jesus gives grace to each of us so that we would nurture the church and make it grow. What does this grace look like?
Christ gives Gifts to Equip his People (4:11-12)
Paul gives us a glimpse of how these gifts look. He writes, “So Christ himself gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the pastors and teachers…” (11). The NT gives us lists of gifts (there are about 20) in Romans 12 and 1 Corinthians 12. They are not exhaustive, meaning, there are more spiritual gifts than the Bible lists.
But this list is a little different than the others. These gifts are not specific, diverse abilities or empowerments for ministry – these are people serving in certain roles. The leaders are the gift to the church. This is going to sound self-serving: I, as a pastor-teacher, am a gift to RFC. The apostles and prophets who wrote the Bible are a gift to the church. The evangelists who led you to the Lord and the pastors who nurtured your faith with Biblical teaching are gifts to you. Christ gave people-gifts to the church.
You know the expression, “He thinks he’s God’s gift to women…” or something like that. You can apply that to a lot of things. I know that I am not “God’s gift” to the church in the sense of being the be-all, end-all (the ultimate). Let’s clarify what Paul is saying. These people-gifts to the church are given “to equip his people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up…” (12). These people are gifted to the church to be equippers.
The NIV got it wrong saying “works of service” whereas the ESV expresses the Greek better “the work of ministry.” It is “the work of service” or “the work of ministry.” We’ll come back to that in a minute.
The leaders are given to equip the church. Paul uses a word for “equip” which is also used in surgery for setting a bone or putting a joint back in its place. It’s also used in Mark 1:19 for mending fishing nets. Fishermen would clean their nets after a catch to remove debris, repair torn parts, to basically restore the net to usefulness. The nets were prepared for service, not to be put in storage. See the picture? The pastor-teacher equips the Christian by teaching, guiding, caring and so on and helping you to become what you ought to be.
Let me ask to do something: Point to the ministers in our church.
How many of you pointed to yourself? You are the real ministers in the church. The word “service” in the verse “to equip his people for the work of service” is diakonia. It’s the same verb that Jesus used when he said that he did not come to be served, but to serve. Our Bibles have adopted the Latin form of “serve” which we know as “minister.” But, somewhere in the history of the church we got the idea that ministers are the ordained ones and everyone else is second tier. Not true. When the church was established in Acts, everyone saw themselves as ministers. During the Middle Ages a great divide emerged between leaders and attenders, the servers and the served. This is just wrong. Our text says, “to each one” (7); “to equip his people” (12); and “as each part does its work” (16).
Now, I hear a lot of people say that they don’t know what their gift is, and they don’t know where to serve as a result. Do you know that the Bible never tells us to figure out what our gift is. We don’t need surveys or assessments. The Bible simply tells us to serve, and the gifts will emerge.
Christ’s Goal: To Grow a Mature Church (4:13-16)
The goal of these verses is one word: Maturity. We have talked in the beginning about what maturity looks like: it has to do with how we talk, how we walk, and with our attitude towards one another. When we consider one another, we see someone whom we are called to serve. We have the attitude of Christ towards others (see Phil. 2:3-5).
My task as a pastor-teacher is to equip you by reminding you of the truths of Jesus Christ. Following Jesus, calling him Lord, leads you to no other conclusion than that you want to be like him, that you want what he wants. What does he want? He wants us to serve one another… (I keep repeating myself).
Paul gives us our path for serving, “so that the body of Christ may be built up until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ,” (12b-13). It’s you; it’s me; it’s each other. I am responsible for your walk of faith; you are responsible for one another’s growth in Christ. Your maturity in Christ is my concern; the maturity of the person sitting beside you is your concern.
It’s not just an individual thing either. We are the body of Christ. We want to grow together into the image of Christ. We represent Christ. What people say about RFC reflects on all of us, good or bad. The responsibility is ours.
We want to grow in maturity. If that is our goal, then we cannot water down the gospel to make it more palatable to the world. We cannot stoop to entertaining talks in the place of teaching the faith. Paul said that if we build up the body in the faith of Christ, “Then we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of people in their deceitful scheming,” (14). Paul mixes his metaphors to make a point. An infant is expected to grow up and leave infantile behavior behind. A maturing child no longer falls for “peek-a-boo.” The other metaphor is of a small boat thrown around like a plaything for the waves. Who’s in control? Not the boat. The boat is at the mercy of the waves. The waves are the many voices we hear that presume to speak the truth to us. The waves of popular opinion, waves of culture, waves of society…
There are a lot of voices out there on the internet, on YouTube, on your TVs, and you need to be equipped to tell the difference between truth and error. How do we know the truth from error?
Paul continued, “Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ,” (15). That’s maturity! That’s our goal! To become like Christ. He is the truth. This repeats what was said before, that we attain to the full measure of the fullness of Christ (13). The aim of the church is nothing less than to produce men and women who have in them the reflection of Jesus Christ himself.
During the Crimean War, Florence Nightingale, the founder of modern nursing, was passing down a hospital ward. She paused to bend over the bed of a badly wounded soldier. As she looked down, the wounded man looked up and said, “You are Christ to me.” A follower of Jesus can be defined as “someone in whom Christ lives again.”
What an honor it would be to hear someone say, “You are Christ to me.” How humbling. My prayer is that we would be a church where people having visited would say as they leave, “You have been Christ to me.” Or as it was said of Peter and John by the Sanhedrin in Acts. 4:13, “these men had been with Jesus.” Then we could say too, we are on the way to maturity as a church.
This only happens if we all serve together. Paul concluded this teaching on maturity saying, “From him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work,” (16). Someone said, “If each Christian was given the exhaustive repertoire of gifts, it is inconceivable that we could carry out our Divine mandate in isolation from one another. But because God has withheld some gifts from the individual Christian, and because God has withheld nothing from his church, our context for doing Christian ministry becomes clear. We must do the work together.”
Some say we have become a spectator society. When it comes to sport, most of us have all the answers. If I were the offensive coordinator last week in that game, we will not mention, between the two teams I will not recall for some time to come, I would have run the ball with Brady Olivera more. We are expert armchair athletes, are we not?
D. Martyn Lloyd Jones, a British pastor, said, “Men and women no longer…exercise in sport as they used to. Instead, people tend to sit in crowds and just watch other people play. And I fear that then tendency is even presenting itself in the church. More and more we see…. people are just sitting back in crowds while one or two people are expected to do everything. Now that, of course, is a complete denial of the NT doctrine of the Church as the Body of Christ, where every single member has responsibility, and has a function, and matters.” (Citation: D. Martyn Lloyd-Jones in Revival, Christianity Today, Vol. 31, no. 18.)
That’s not us folks. RFC is not a church that sits back. We are all in the game. Let’s keep growing in maturity. Let’s keep striving to be a community that people could say, “You have been Christ to me.”
AMEN