THE TIME OF YOUR LIFE
Time is a currency you cannot hoard, and once it is spent you cannot get it back. In fact, you have no choice but to spend time, you cannot keep time from ticking away.
At the age of 10, time seems to slow right down when you are standing with your mother in a ladies’ clothing store as she examines every piece of clothing as if looking for gold. As a boy, you can only hope and pray that your friends don’t see you in that store. Time stands still.
At the age of 50, you wonder where the time went. Your children have grown up and have begun to make their own way in life. They get married; they have children; they have careers. Time has become a blur as you get older. And at this stage of life, you begin to evaluate whether you have spent your time wisely.
The time we have on this earth is a gift from God. We are given a stewardship of time to use and to invest in things of worth, whether in the present or for eternity. While we like to think that we have control of our time, there are moments, seasons even, where we realize we have far less control than we like to admit. Most of the things that happen to us in life are really out of our control.
It’s hard to understand the times we are in, especially when life seems to go against us. The book of Ecclesiastes is an ancient Hebrew book of musings by someone called “The Teacher” who wrestles with the meaning of life. His poem on time in 3:1-8 is a famous passage, but we are going to go beyond it to see what he learned about time and how to understand the times of our lives.
1. Recognizing the Times we are facing (3:1-8)
If the poem sounds familiar to you children of the 60s and 70s, that’s because it is the basis of the song Turn, Turn, Turnperformed by the Byrds. Though very innocent sounding, it was a protest song of the Vietnam War. The last line of the song declares there is “a time for peace, I swear it’s not too late,” which is not in the Ecclesiastes version.
The Teacher states his main point right at the beginning: “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens…” (1). Then he gives 14 examples in pairs that cover every area of life. If you know Ecclesiastes, you know the Teacher is a pessimist. He deduces that life is melancholy under God’s sovereignty and “everything is meaningless.” He tried to find meaning in pleasure, wealth, education, and found it all futile.
As the Teacher describes “time” or “seasons,” he seems to suggest that there is a time to kill, a time to tear down, a time for war. Does that mean we are supposed to do all these things? There is a time to kill your neighbor. No, but what he describes is the seasons of life.
A summary of the 14 pairs could be compared to the four seasons of our calendar. Spring is a time of new experiences, a time for planting, and starting new jobs. Summer is a time of growth, where we watch the seeds we planted grow, and we observe possibilities. Fall is the time when we reap a harvest, we begin to receive after a season of giving. And Winter is a time of death, when things end, when the bitter cold of life is experienced. We may find ourselves in different seasons several times in our lives.
What the Teacher is telling us is that there is an ebb and flow to life, a balance of good things and the not so good. But there are definitely negatives in this list, things you won’t like if you zoom in with me. First, you don’t want everything on this list – you love births; death not so much; healing but not killing. Second, you don’t get to pick what you get. As in the game of Sluff, you have to play the cards you are dealt; you would like a better hand, but that’s not how it works. Third, when you add it all up, it equals “nothing.” Death cancels out birth; killing cancels healing; war cancels love.
The Teacher throws up his hands as if to say, “What’s the point?” We are like slaves working on a large estate of a landowner. We have no rights; we are tools; we have no will or say. Everything is determined by the master. And what benefit is there for the slaves?
2. Failure to understand our Times (3:9-11)
The Teacher sums it all up in his melancholy way and says, “What do people really get for all their hard work? I have seen the burden God has placed on us all,” (9-10 NLT). The Teacher is a fun guy, eh? He basically implies that the day of your death is fast approaching, and you have no control over it. How do you cope with this evaluation? Can you control your life? You can’t stop time. You can’t control time.
So, stop trying to control it. Life is like a car without brakes and a little bit of steering. James tells us, “Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes. Instead, you ought to say, ‘If it is the Lord’s will, we will live and do this or that,” (4:14-15).
The good news of this passage is that hidden in the Teacher’s negativity is the truth: God is in control. He recognizes that God is in control of time and the seasons we experience. But that is the issue at stake: the Teacher is evaluating God’s actions and his will in all of this. We have free will, but there is a collaboration with God’s will and what he has planned. This can be frustrating or comforting depending on what your will is in all of this. God is in control.
The bad news for us as humans comes in v. 12, “He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the hearts of men; yet they cannot fathom what God has done from beginning to end,” (12). The bad news is also a bit cryptic. You are a creature of time who was made for eternity. It is said that dogs have no understanding of time. When Sharon leaves the house for a few hours or for three weeks, our dog cannot grasp how long it’s been since she left. All she feels is grief that Sharon is gone. Humans, on the other hand, are capable of asking the bigger questions of life. Our curse is trying to understand or grasp the meaning of life. No other creature has this problem. We want to know “Why?” We want to discern the things that happen to us and find an answer. But we can’t. (to sum up: see slide).
3. Embrace the Times you are facing (3:12-13)
What are we to do then? We can’t control time. Answers to life’s questions are beyond our understanding. What do we do?
The Teacher says, “I know that there is nothing better for men than to be happy and do good while they live. That every man may eat and drink, and find satisfaction in all his toil – this is the gift of God,” (12-13).
In short: Enjoy life. I think this prescription is harder than it seems. Are you enjoying life? You may ask, “How am I to enjoy life when I am in the winter season?” But the Teacher does not tell to only enjoy the good seasons. We are to have this attitude in every season, even winter.
Remember the Narnia Chronicles lament? Since the White Witch had taken control, it seemed like it was always winter and never Christmas. It feels that way sometimes. The endless of winter of discontent. Paul commands followers of Jesus to “Rejoice in the Lord always!” In every season! It may seem trite to say that seasons pass and this will too. There is a faint hope in this truth. An even greater truth and comfort is that God uses “winter” – those times of deadness in our spiritual or emotional or mental life – to do his greatest work in us. James again gives us this bizarre counsel, “Consider it pure joy…whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance,” (1:2-3).
What season of life are you in? Can you enjoy the winter season? Can you see that even in the blizzard of this time, God is at work and producing in you spiritual character? Consider that what you can’t see, is the Holy Spirit doing a renovation in your heart. God is changing something. God is challenging something. We can’t understand the negative side of the ledger of verses 1-8, but God works on that side too.
You don’t have forever. Your time is limited. Make the most of it. Turn off the TV. Put down your cell phone. Enjoy what God has put before you. Don’t waste your life. Make the most of your opportunities.
4. Honor God, the Lord of Time (3:14-15)
What else? Enjoying life alone is simply pleasure-seeking. The Teacher goes on to say, “And I know that whatever God does is final. Nothing can be added to it or taken from it. God’s purpose is that people should fear him. What is happening now has happened before, and what will happen in the future has happened before, because God makes the same things happen over and over again.”
This is the only recourse that makes sense. Once we understand that we can’t control time and life and that only God can – honor God!
Time is in his hands. Can we understand the course of time? An old man celebrates his 100th birthday on the same day a child dies in infancy. We build something that we think will last a hundred years only to see it dismantled for something better in 20. We see these contradictions all the time. We don’t get it. But God does. Time is in his hands.
That should cause us to tremble. I was saying this exact thing to someone last week: We don’t fear God enough. I don’t mean the kind of fear that makes you run away. I mean the kind of fear where you realize how special a relationship is with someone that you dare not do anything to mess it up. Our friendship with God is beyond comprehension, it is so good, that we should fear taking it for granted. He knows the times we face because he has entered into them himself in Jesus.
When we realize that he has time in his hands, we can relax. Christ alone was able to know what God did in eternity past. Christ alone was in on the plan to redeem humankind. Paul reflected on Christ’s knowledge of God’s plan when he wrote, “But when the time had fully come, God sent his Son, born of a woman under the law, to redeem those under law that we might receive the full rights of (children),” (Gal. 4:4-5).
God knew the right time to send his Son. He has great timing. And we know that Jesus will come again when the time is right. The events of life are beyond our control, so enjoy God’s gifts and honor him. Every day is a gift from God, and it is a God-honoring privilege to live your life in enjoying something in it.
Honor God with your life.
How do we do that?
As we have studied in this passage, if we got its message, we know that life is uncertain. There is a season for every facet of life: spring-summer-fall-winter, even if the order is mixed up at times. Bad times will come, and it shouldn’t surprise us.
Second, we need to confess that we are not in control. Say this to yourself, “I’m not in control. I never was.” Does that take a load off of your shoulders?
Third, God IS in control of life, the times, and the seasons. We are at the whim of his timing. But he’s good at working out the timing of this life, so we should honor him. Our job is not to steer the course of the future, but to submit in faith to him who does.
Fourth, God has put eternity in our hearts so that we above all creatures will ask “why” and “how.” We won’t get all the answers, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t any. It just means we have to rest in the truth that we were made for more than what this fallen world has shown us so far. One day, when Jesus comes, time will no longer matter.
So then, enjoy this life. How unhappy are we if miss out on the good things happening right in front of us? How miserable if we keep looking over the fence at someone else’s experiences and miss the good stuff right here. We don’t know what winter they are in, even if it looks like summer. God gives the seasons, and your own winter will not last – spring is coming!
“What shall we say about such wonderful things as these? If God is for us, who can ever be against us? Since he did not spare even his own Son but gave him up for us all, won’t he also give us everything else?” (Rom. 8:31-32)
AMEN